
One of the marvels of the internet today is to have people from all colors, political and others, mingled in whatever conversation happens. A best example was triggered by the previous post in this blog
-A Xmas tale-. Since a couple of years I have decided not to have reaction space in the blog itself, but let whatever social network is around to be the space for react to whatever I write here. The approach actually works. If you would happen to follow my
twitter/facebook timeline, or to check the
comments that appear in the note itself, you would see that indeed, a strange meet of minds and ideas have happened around my last post.
To give a bit of context, I will allow myself to introduce the characters of this tale. On one side we have my friend of old times
Tito. I meet him many years ago in university, when we both where members of the board of directors from the Movimiento Formate y Lucha, a left wing student's organization. I loose track of Tito for almost a couple of decades, up to when he resurfaced in my life via facebook. Tito lives now in the USA, and being active in what we call in Europe the Tea Party Movement, we had (and probably will have) plenty of heated arguments already on democracy, current politics and the like. If we happen to agree on politics, that was couple of decades ago. Which makes it, at least from my perspective, very interesting. How comes that people go so apart from each other in politics? Did we change or are we the same, but our different environments forces us to disagree? Do we understand each other? Questions that remain interestingly unanswered.
On the other side, we have
Ton. Very differently than Tito, I have yet to meet Ton in person. I believe he is member of GroenLinks, my dutch political party, and certainly we share plenty of ideas and interests. It hardly passes a comment in my (or in any other of our shared friends) facebook timeline without comment from Ton. Reading philosophy and cooking lore, and certainly being more than 40, Ton fits as yet another example of the positive aspects of Europe today: a life style that permits to balance high taxes and high individual liberty with a rather left wing political line.
Between these two poles, we also have
Imke and
Dirk, friends that I have meet in different moments and groups of GroenLinks Utrecht. Differently than Tito, Ton and myself, Imke and Dirk are youngsters, ending their studies or just in their first full time job. Even if I consider myself young, when I heard and read Imke and Dirk I recognize that they respond and react from a perspective a couple of decades younger than mine, which makes any dialogue between us even more interesting. And on the other side, we also have
Maruja. Maruja taught international relations when I was in university, a course that among other consequences produced the first students-professors human rights action group in Caracas. When I read Maruja I read a keen mind honed by decades of following the drama (or comedy) of politics of all sorts.
Now, after all that have being said. If you read my last post before, or care to check it after, you would remember that nagged by northamerican descriptions of the european welfare, I put down my own, sort of not-american-not-european perspective. In short I do believe that europeans in general, and dutchies in particular, enjoy ample free time, more than their northamerican counterparts. And I believe that such attitude comes from a long tradition of conservative values, where living in a comfortable middle class is seen as a desirable goal. Nothing too original, nor too conflictive, I thought.
But of course, my friends thought otherwise. And one of those facebook battle fields rise. Interesting in itself, because if you happen to follow the exchange, you will see right away the preconceptions that north-americans have of europeans, and otherwise. And not only. Also the views of a right winger on a left winger, and viceversa. Meanwhile Maruja cut though the middle of my too-extensive prose, and retweeted my own original title as "perfect social security or golden mediocrity", Tito and Ton engaged in a discussion on principles of right and left politics.
Not surprisingly, in the whole debate between Ton and Tito, I found myself agreeing with Ton and wondering in disbelief on what Tito has to write. But anyhow, what is interesting is how comes that persons that honestly share a desire for social improvement can come up with such a different views. I mean, I do not believe for a second when a right wing leader tells me that his agenda of tax cuts is actually in the benefit of the poor. But what when a serious, not stupid, honest person tells me the same? Probably my friend the right winger wonders in the same way (or at least I hope so): how comes that Inti (and Ton and many others), being not too stupid can believe all this nonsense from the left? Politics, of course, is not exact science, and there are no universal truths. But still. To me, anyhow, the many debates with Tito tells me that we should be much more open and tolerant than we actually are. In this world that we share, with problems that affect not only Tito and me, but the eskimo in alaska and the bushman in africa... This dialogue must go on, even if so frequently seems to be a dialogue between deaf people.
Besides this general issue of reaching out to our extreme opposers, and try to learn and to understand from them, still is the issue of ideal societies, or organizational modes. And here I must confess that even when sounding decadent, I am still in favor of the more soft societies that europe has created. Because today I am not willing to believe that freedom can only mean freedom of earning money, as much as I can. I do believe that money is only a middle, an instrument to help fulfill a meaningful life not only for me, but for the ones that by millions of different reasons earn less than me. Tito certainly has an important point when he tells that socialist dreams have become, far too often, in nightmares. True. But does that have to mean that any attempt to socialize and redistribute income is doomed to become a stalinist tyranny? I don't think so, I really don't. Even if only looking at the nightmares that the capitalist dream has produced in my countries, where myriads are born, grown and die in exploited hells that will never offer any chance of emancipation.
Which raises the last point of this post. It could be that because I am pushing the forties and I have the luxury of running my own company, which small (and frequently null) income only complement the steady income of my wife, I have actually forgotten my early years of toll. Surely Imke has not forgotten them, when reporting that most of her social circle does work harder than hard, with hardly any time left out of the rat race. So again, that is why this brave, free, mostly incoherent but still alive dialogue of internet is valuable. Because we can forget that our own limited view of reality is nothing else than that: a limited sight. If we are to move forward, we must go on contrasting the disparaging views across the Atlantic, and across the generations.